Some background; I had my first daughter when I was 20 y/o. A training physician had me push before I was 10cm dilated. My first daughter was 10lb 3oz and I had extensive damage and hemorrhaging, in and out of the hospital for a month. My second daughter was 9lbs 15oz. My husband and I have a very active sex life but he would occasionally make comments about me not being as tight as before I...